Couples therapy is a program of action.
put in the work and reap the rewards
Couple’s therapy is my jam, seriously it is. Working with two other people in a room is where I shine. My goal is to help you feel as comfortable as possible, while holding you accountable to your own words, goals and efforts. I promise you will laugh at least once in our session which I believe is good for the soul.
My passion and focus is on relationships. I am fascinated by the way the brain and trauma influence the ways in which we engage in conflict. Helping my clients gain a better understanding of what happens to them physiologically and how this affects our ability to problem solve (aka manage conflict) is one of my main goals.
I provide couples counseling and marriage therapy virtually for those who live on any of the Hawaiian Islands and for those who live in Washington State.
I am physically located on the Island of Maui and I hold in person couples intensives in the Upcountry area.
About my practice
The basics:
I work with couples. I have advanced (level 3 ) training in the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy and I use the Gottman Method in my work with couples. While my main modality is the Gottman Method, I also see clients through an attachment lens and have been integrating Imago therapy in my work as well.
I also work with women. If you are a woman who needs a cheerleader and an accountability coach with years of experience helping women see their value and worth is far more than just being in a relationship, then welcome. I got you.
My practice is both in person and virtual. I am usually taking on new couples as schedules are constantly shifting and changing. My clients use an online client portal to schedule all of their own sessions. This allows clients to decide how often and far ahead they want to book. Virtual talk therapy sessions are held through zoom. My office space in located in Makawao, Hi.
I offer an incredible in person Couples Intensive on Maui. This is for one couple at a time. This is a completely unique experience that you will not find anywhere else.
I offer a very detailed online course for couples. This is for couples who may not feel ready to start therapy, or for couples who can not fit into my schedule yet and want to get started working on their relationship.
I am a fully licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in both Washington State and Hawaii
I do not accept insurance, nor am I on any insurance panels. However, I do take HSA cards, and I can provide you with a superbill for potential reimbursement, although Beth Wylie Therapy never guarantees reimbursement. Please check with your insurance provider.
If you are willing to put in the effort, I am here to help.
My style as a therapist
firm, friendly and funny
Empathy, understanding and validation do not always come naturally to us, yet those are the things we need the most of, especially in relationships. I provide these skills to each of you in our sessions together. You will also be encouraged to do the same for the people you are in relationships with. I am honest and direct, yet gentle in my approach with couples. Couples counseling is most effective when negative communication patterns are called out as they happen in session. This allows you to work towards developing more effective communication skills and healthier patterns. I am in your corner and want to support you in your goals during therapy. My hope is that you and your partner can learn to manage conflict, form a deeper more fulfilling emotional connection, learn to have open communication in all areas of your relationship including sex, have kisses that last 6 seconds and laugh with each other daily. I learn from and I am inspired by my clients everyday. To be able to help a couple move out of negative sentiment or to help a woman see her value in this world, is something I am humbled by and grateful for. Plus, I try to help us have a little fun through humor and relevant stories that I might share. Over the years I have created some very special relationships with my clients. I treasure the experiences and stories that we have shared over the years and I also know that after working with a couple, I grow in my role as a therapist.
Rates and Insurance
I do not take insurance
I am not on any insurance panels; therefore, I am considered an Out of Network provider. Please check with your insurance company to see if you are eligible for reimbursement. You may need to meet a deductible before your provider will reimburse you. Finally, it is important to find out if couples therapy or family therapy is covered by your provider.
Intensive in-person Therapy
$5600 for Intensive Therapy includes 4 days of therapy on Maui and three virtual sessions before you arrive. You will also receive a copy of the Gottman Couples Therapy Questionnaire. Beth will also give you a comprehensive write-up outlining her recommendations and providing an explanation of the tools we covered. (Flight and accommodations are not included in this price).
Soulfire Therapy and Coaching
This container is billed monthly.
Counseling Rates
50 minute individual or couples sessions are $225
90 minute couples sessions are $325
4 hour day is $1400 (hourly rate increases for intensive work).
4 full days is $5600. I do offer either Kama’aina or Military discounts (10%).
Helping couples be more intentional is my goal.
Education & Training
Good news, I have them both!
- B.A. in Psychology and a double minor in Family Relations and Child Development from California State University, Chico. (2002)
- M.A. in Counseling Psychology from National University in Carlsbad, Ca. (2010)
- Levels I, II and III training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
- I am currently on the certification track with The Gottman Institute. To learn more about The Gottman Institute click here.
- Bringing Baby Home and 7 Principles Gottman Educator
- Prepare-Enrich Facilitator for Pre-Marital couples.
Relationship Specialist
testimonials
WHAT MY CLIENTS ARE SAYING
“Beth is is not afraid to tell either of us when we have said something that is critical or defensive. That is refreshing in a therapist.”
- Carolyn
“We still have conflict but we are able to stay with the issue now in a way we could never do before.”
- Sarah
“Beth helped us see how alcohol was the 3rd person in our marriage.”
- John